Surrogacy is a remarkable journey of hope, compassion, and love, yet it often finds itself shrouded in misconceptions and myths. These misconceptions can create barriers to understanding and support for those involved in surrogacy journeys. In this blog post, we aim to debunk some of the most common myths surrounding surrogacy, providing clarity and fostering a more informed dialogue on this deeply personal and transformative experience.
Myth #1: Surrogacy is Exploitative
One of the prevailing myths about surrogacy is that it exploits women who serve as surrogates. However, the reality is quite the opposite. Surrogacy is a consensual agreement entered into by informed adults who are supported by legal, medical, and psychological professionals. Surrogates are empowered individuals who generously choose to help others build their families, driven by empathy and compassion rather than coercion. At ACRC, our surrogates are vetted to ensure they are pursuing surrogacy for the right reasons.
Myth #2: Surrogacy is Socially Stigmatized
Surrogacy is often stigmatized due to misunderstandings and societal biases. However, efforts to normalize surrogacy and celebrate the love and altruism driving many surrogate journeys are gaining momentum. By sharing stories of surrogacy openly and honestly, we can challenge stereotypes and promote acceptance and support for all individuals involved in surrogacy. Check out our stories/reviews [INSERT LINK for social media] for honest experiences from ACRC surrogates!
Myth #3: Surrogacy is Always Successful
While surrogacy can be a deeply rewarding experience, it is not without its challenges or guarantees. Medical complications, legal issues, and emotional hurdles can arise during the surrogacy process, underscoring the importance of realistic expectations and comprehensive support for all parties involved. Surrogacy is a human process, and if roadblocks do occur, it's important to have an experienced agency on your side to get you back on track.
Myth #4: Surrogates is Transactional
Contrary to popular belief, surrogates often form profound emotional bonds with the intended parents and the child(ren) they carry. These bonds are built on trust, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to creating a family. Surrogates embark on this journey with open hearts, knowing that their selflessness will forever impact the lives of others. Although some journeys may certainly be more transactional than others, expectations and preferences are discussed openly and honestly in the beginning of any journey to ensure all parties are on the same page.
Surrogacy is a remarkable testament to the power of compassion. Don't be put off by these common myths and misconceptions surrounding surrogacy. At ACRC, we aim to promote understanding, empathy, and support for all individuals involved in this incredible journey.